Do Our Mıstakes Make Us Smaller or Help Us Grow?
Do Our Mistakes Make Us Smaller or Help Us Grow?
In society, making mistakes is often seen as a very bad behavior. People who make mistakes are afraid of social pressure, being judged, or blaming themselves. Sometimes this pressure can even harm a person until they start hurting themselves.
So what is it that scares us this much? When we make a mistake, no one comes to take our life. Most likely we will not receive a very big punishment either. In a world with 195 countries and 8.3 billion people, why do we think that all eyes are on us when we make a mistake? Why do we behave as if the world has ended?
Maybe we cannot find the exact answer to these questions, but we can feel it. Did you make a mistake and get fired from your job? Find another job and do not make the same mistake again.
Did you have a traffic accident and your brand-new car got damaged? It is not the end of the world. Your health is still there: you still have two arms, two eyes, two legs, a mind and a heart. As long as your health is fine, you can always replace material things that are lost.
You confessed your feelings to someone you love and got rejected. But there are still people in the world who love you. Your friends, your family and many others. Maybe you love that person very much, but according to psychology it is possible to forget someone within a few months or a few years.
As long as you did not physically or emotionally harm someone, and no one died, maybe the situation is not as terrible as you think. What matters is finding a small piece of positivity and hope and holding on to life. Because in this life, the only thing that has no cure is death.
Did you make a mistake? Learn your lesson and start again in a stronger way. Do you think everything is over? Every ending is actually a new beginning.
Mistakes scare us because the world is full of people who fear failure and lack self-confidence. If mistakes remain just mistakes, they can pull a person down. But if we learn from our mistakes and start a new path, then neither mistakes nor people can scare us.
So, which side do you choose to be on?
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